CONFRONT THE UNUSUAL

 

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

A charismatic leader confronting the unusual /Photo Courtesy/ Kaboompics.com

Something Wrong?

If you feel that there is something wrong somewhere, don’t ignore the feeling. There is something wrong. And the feeling is just confirming what you might have been suspecting. Don’t ignore the cues that point that something unusual is taking place around you. After all, you have lived your life for a long time. You know you. And you also know how normal looks like. In circumstances where the normal that you know cannot be seen. Don’t live comfortable. Follow the signals. Get to the bottom of what could be going wrong. And aim to understand what is disrupting normal. The underlying causes of the unusual events. Get to understand those things. Don’t look the other way. There is something wrong. And it is your duty to find out what is wrong. It is your responsibility as a person to dig deeper. Get the full picture of what is happening.

That is what adulating up looks like. You take action when you suspect something unusual. You would rather investigate and find nothing. Rather than ignore and create a tsunami. Don’t give chance to wrong things to sprout and flourish around you. Don’t let evil things to find a sustainable environment around you or in you. Don’t give them permission. Take charge of your surroundings. Understand your environs. Understand how normal looks like in your environment. Don’t allow foreign things to encroach and find comfort. You know you. Do not allow such things to happen. Follow the same steps that signaled that something could be wrong in a particular direction. Go to that direction. Check everything in that direction. Search with the objective of spotting the wrong thing.

Don’t leave until you find the wrong thing. Often times, when something suggests that there is something wrong. There is something wrong. You just need to look. To look carefully. And you will see the wrong. So look carefully. Search in all those directions. Approach the search with order. The wrong thing knows that you are looking for it. And it will try to run. And hide so that you don’t see anything. But don’t be fooled. Root out the wrong. Don’t allow wrong to coexist with good. Bad things that cause discomfort among people need to get out. Get those things out. Don’t normalize discomfort. You deserve a good life. A life full of peace and smooth operations. You don’t need to struggle to just reach a glass of water. It is not supposed to be like that. Reach the glass of water any time you feel the need for a glass of water.

A responsible professional confronting the wrong /Photo /Cottonbro studios

Get wrong things out of your life. Anywhere you sense discomfort. Find out what is happening in that particular spot. Act with speed. Don’t talk about it. Confront the unusual. And uproot it out of your life. This is why it is important to know who you are as a person. When you know you. It becomes easy to identify things that are not you. They will stick out. And your only job will be to tell them they don’t belong there. And redirect them where they belong. This is how normal life looks like. It brings up stuff. Stuff that you are supposed to learn from. When these things occur, you need to be the right person. Someone who is sensitive. Sensitive enough to see the unusual. If you were sensing that something could be wrong. That feeling was not nothing. The feeling was a message. And you need to listen to the message.

Can You See?

That is your biggest responsibility right now. To see what is wrong in your own life and confront it. You need to respond to various messages that look like nothing. Those messages look like nothing because they are insignificant. The wrong thing has not shown its potential. And you have not felt the impact. You are only seeing signs. Subtle signs that are suggesting foreign things in your surroundings. Your biggest challenge during such moments is to pause from what you are doing and actually start looking. Your work is important. Your rest is important. But this too is important. Are you able to see the importance? Will you create time to find out what is wrong? That is where the challenge lies. And sometimes, that is also how the wrong things take root in your own life. Because you did not take action. You were not swift.

And when you looked the other way. The unusual started spreading. It spread until it found a perfect place to hide. Now you will work hard to find it. Because it has not only spread to other parts but also increased its level of discomfort. You will no longer concentrate because something will be itching you. You will not enjoy your tranquility. There will be disruption. And that disruption will cause you to lose something. That was the intention of the wrong thing from the beginning. The unusual did not come to just cause discomfort. Its overall purpose was loss. When you were feeling some elements of discomfort. When it was first finding access. You were supposed to take note during that time. That first time and do something. something that was supposed to end the discomfort. However, you postponed. And now you are losing.

Hard working colleagues confronting wrong issues in their career /Photo Courtesy /Jack Sparrow 

It was not supposed to be this way. You were supposed to act. To take action that would end the source of the wrong thing. But you were not ready. Now you are grappling with a loss. Don’t allow yourself to end up with a loss. Confront wrong things. Fight evil things. Don’t allow bad things to germinate. Don’t allow them to birth. Nip them in the bud. Stop them at the first notice. See bad things when they are still small. There at their introduction, end them. One wrong thing is capable of destroying a generation. Don’t lose a generation. Take action. Act on that first feeling. That day you feel something unusual. Act on that day. See the exact spot an unusual event is taking place. Target the place and find out what is happening. Exactly at that location. What is going on right there? Ransack that area until you find something or nothing.

Finding something is your responsibility. Living sensitive is also your duty. Being in charge of your life is your biggest responsibility. Know you and your environment. So that when something unusual begins to linger around, you will know. Know when something is wrong. These are your duties and responsibilities. To secure your life and your surroundings. To protect that which is yours. And stand guard always. Don’t create room for wrong to find access. Don’t sleep. Don’t postpone. Watch everything. See everything. See the wrongs things and how they seek to enter and cause harm. Prevent wrong things from bringing disruption in your life. Be the leader of your own life. Guard your life. Protect yourself from things that seek to harm you. Don’t allow those things or those people to steal from you. Don’t allow yourself to incur unnecessary loss.

Look around you. Look inside of you. What can you see? Get the wrong things out of your life. Drive bad people out of your way. Tell those things they have no access. You will not permit them to exist in you. You will not allow bad people to harm you. You will secure your environment. You will establish clear channels. Channels that will allow information to flow. You will get your intelligence on time. And you will act quickly. You will not tarry. You don’t have that time to act slowly. You will roll your sleeves as soon as you receive your intelligence. Because you are a responsible person. Responsible people solve problems. Solve your problems. Don’t nurture them. Solve them. Find the right solutions. Solutions that respond to those problems effectively. Keep yourself safe. Confront issues that don’t look normal. Cast out the bad.