PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
A young female leader taking charge of the meeting/Credit/Vlada Karpovich
Have Your Own Vision
There
is no way, you will be great at something that you don’t know how to do. There
is no way, you will also be a great player in a game you don’t know. You must
know the game first. Then understand the rules that govern the game. And now,
learn how to play the game. You cannot be in charge if, you don’t know you. You
need to know what you, wants in life. You have to know where to begin and where
to end. You need your own vision. Your life’s own vision. Your affair’s own vision.
You need to own your own game. The game of your life. Learn how to play that
game. Take charge of the game. Learn the
rules of the game. Lay the structure of the game. Your life is your life. And
you have one life only. Take charge of your life. Own responsibility of your
life. Develop a vision for your life. Put yourself in charge.
Have
a vision of your own. Determine how things run in your life. Decide who does
what in your life. Choose the type of things to nurture. Choose your career.
Choose your character. Choose your values. Put yourself in charge. Determine
what grows here, and what does not grow here. Have a vision to guide you. To
help you understand where to begin and the next steps that follow. You need to
own your life. And things that happen in your life. Don’t commit injustices in your
life. Guide it in the right path. Lead your life. Let in the right people to
help you lower the rate of bad games. Bad games such as, people running you.
Other people deciding for you. Other people speaking for you. Don’t allow other
people to tell your story. You tell your story. you own your story. You own
yourself. Other people can only tell your story if, they are invited to tell
your story.
The
value of putting yourself in charge comes in a one-act of being your own
person. Build your own power. Understand your own power. Understand your own
potential. Curve your own destiny. Take charge of your chaos. Being the leader
in the chaos. And standing tall during turbulence. Putting yourself in charge
is learning how to be a leader. A good leader must make good decisions.
Decisions that result in progress. Decisions that demonstrate an existence of a
vision. Decisions that establish you as a leader. Putting yourself in charge is
an action leadership. You take charge of your own affairs. You bring order in
your life. You bring wisdom in your life. You determine what you embrace every
day. You bring growth in your life. Things that make you better. Steps that
connect you with the right opportunities. Moves that attract the right people. Have
your own vision. Put yourself in charge. Lead you.
You
will make good decisions as a leader. Decisions that will bring the right
partnerships. Your life needs those types of moves. Bold moves. Moves that
establish a pathway for success. Moves that bring blessings. Moves that get you
at the top. Moves that give you power. Steps that put you in charge. Moves that
help you to chart an upward mobility. You need this power. You deserve to be an
authority in your own life. Have your own vision. Develop a vision to access
these power and authority. Understand that being your own person is cultivated.
Being your own person is earned. You desire it. you envision it. and you call
it in your vision. Your own vision will teach you how you will accomplish the
things you would like to see happen. You need a vision. Your life needs a
vision. You cannot live haphazard. You cannot be random. You will lose the
game. You will lose control of your life. Haphazard loses people. It takes you
out of charge. Don’t accept that. Put yourself in charge.
Be a Realist
Yes,
be a realist. See life as it is. See people as they are. See situations as they
are. You need clarity. You need to make decisions. You can only make the right
decisions when you understand the state of affairs in your life. You need to
see your life as it is. If, your life is boring now, you need to know what kind
of decisions you need to make to turn around boring. If, you don’t have money,
you also need to make the right difficult decisions that will help you to turn
broke around. Be a realist. Talk about facts. Use facts. Have the right
information about things. Use the right information to mastermind. To find ways
to get out of bad situations. Or use those facts to continue following and
implementing the strategies that you have been implementing, which have led you
where you are now. Assuming you are doing good right now.
A
realist does not use other layers in his or her interpretation of things. A
realist uses the face value of things. A realist sees the truth. A realist
learns from the truth. And a realist plans from the truth. You need to be a
realist in your life. You need this kind of approach to help you lower your
expenses. This approach helps you to simplify your life. You evaluate the types
of people you interact with every day. You determine their value in your life.
If, your evaluation establishes that these people are a cost, you drop the
unnecessary cost. If, the people are filling up your life for nothing and
spending your energy for nothing. It is also time to make a call. Get rid of
them. Get rid of people and things that do not provide the right support. If,
you want to climb a mountain and these things and people are not being the
right ladder or steps to follow, stop entertaining them.
Stop
entertaining lazy people in your lives. Stop entertaining broke people in your
life. Don’t keep broke minds in your circle. Don’t entertain pessimists. Get
negative people out of your life. Work with the right information. Use the
right facts. Understand things for what they are, and people for who they are.
You have no business keeping friends, who would want to speak to the media
about your personal life before you speak. Real friends should have your back.
Real friends should want what you want. If, you don’t want to speak to the media,
they also don’t want to speak to media. People who give personal details
without authorization or without seeking consent. You don’t want these people
in your life. Get rid of these people. Get rid of people who don’t respect you.
Get rid of people who do not listen. Get rid of all things that do not help you.
Things that derail you. Things that want you to remain in the past. Get over
them. Put yourself in charge. See things for what they are. be a realist.
Think for Yourself
A
leader must be in a position to think independently. You must be in a position
to think independently. You must be in a position to think for yourself. Think
about how you would like to solve your current problems. If, you must put
yourself in charge, then you have no option but learn how to think for
yourself. You must make decisions that create progress. You must be a good
thinker to make progress. Learn how good thinkers think. Learn about how to
think for yourself. Make decisions that take you forward. Learn to harness the
power within you. Raise the leader within you. Empower the star within you.
Think for yourself. Own your own thoughts. Be in charge. Solve those problems
yourself. Partner with the right people to solve problems. Strategize.
Mastermind. Come up with plans to solve things that need to be solved. Put
yourself in charge.
Thinking
for yourself is not as, complicated as you think. Thinking for yourself is
about determining things that matter in your life. It is about giving priority
to things that matter. It is about getting the noise out of your life. Kicking
off herd mentality. Thinking for yourself is getting your life past the crowd.
And listening to your own voice. Your own little voice. That little voice within
you. And allowing that voice to help you accomplish your goals and objectives.
Most people are afraid of thinking for themselves. They feel that they are not
good enough. That they are not equipped to think. That is fear. It is an
admission of inadequacy. Don’t be afraid. Start learning. Get some training.
Gain some confidence in yourself. Stand up for yourself. Learn how to be an
effective thinker. Learn how to think something from the bottom to the top. There
are resources to help you. Putting yourself in charge is not easy. But it is
attainable if, this is what you want.
Have Boundaries
You
cannot be everything at the same time. And you cannot also be everywhere all
the time. You need to establish boundaries in your life. You cannot have
everyone in your life always. And everyone cannot access you all the time.
Establish boundaries that teach people how to knock before they enter. People
need to know that they cannot just access you as they wish. There must be some
elements of order. People should not be just jumping in your life or house.
Have boundaries. Put yourself in charge. Determine who comes in, and what
brings that person in. You need to be clear. People need to be clear. You need
to know your priorities. You cannot waste your time on senseless talks. You
cannot allow your time to be used in gossip. You cannot encourage tattletales in
your life. And you cannot enable gossip in your life by participating in it.
Have boundaries. Have priorities.
Put
yourself in charge. Choose the kind of conversations you would like to have.
Choose the kind of people you would like to entertain. Choose the things you
would like to nurture in life. Choose things that contribute to the overall
good. Things that grow you into your best you. People that support your vision.
People that respect you. People that contribute meaningfully in your life. Not
everything is something. The noise is not a conversation. The crowd is not a
person. Having a house full of drunkards is not being sober. Put yourself in
charge by creating boundaries around your life. Have some limits. Life cannot
run its course on you. There are things that you want and things that you don’t
want. Name those things. Name the things that you want. Cultivate those things.
And water down those things that you don’t want.
Life
has everything that you want. Choose the right things for your life. Lead your
life. Make decisions for your life that get you somewhere. Make decisions that
eliminate injustices in your life. When you implement the four techniques to
the letter, your life will change. You will have less burden. You will no
longer please other people. You will no longer implement other people’s
visions. You will not follow the crowd. Other people will not play games with
you. You will unmask them. Something will not be missing in you. You will live
a fulfilling and satisfying life. You will end up with what you want. You will
have the right career. You have the right people and opportunities. You will
enjoy living in purpose. You will love being yourself. You will rejoice putting
yourself in charge. You will love being a leader. You will be your own person.
Great thinker, leader, and a mastermind.
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