CULTIVATING GROWTH MINDSET
A stressed out woman having a difficult time to come to terms with her negative circumstance Credit/Liza Summer
Pull Yourself Together
When
you are going through a rough time. You are negatively impacted in the worst
way possible. Your motivation in particular, suffers the biggest blow. Your
energy is negatively crushed by the negative circumstance you are facing. You
are not feeling good. You don’t feel like doing anything. You are almost giving
in to the negative circumstance. You are at a point in your mind where you
think. The negative circumstance is too much. And you want to give up. You are
almost letting it have its way. Your energy to fight is running out. And you
are too overwhelmed to act. This is the worst position to find yourself. If,
you continue in that direction, you will lose it. If, you continue processing
how heavily the negative circumstance is weighing on you. You will easily give
up. You will give in. It will beat you down.
Having
to deal with a rough patch in any part of your life is tough. Your emotions are
jumbled. And your thought process is also shaky. You are mostly not thinking.
You are also mostly worried about what will happen. If, a solution does not
come soon. You think your life is over. But while going through all these
roller coasters of emotions. It is important to take control. You need to take
control of this situation by pulling yourself together. After, you have
experienced all the negative emotions. Cried about it. Regretted about it. And imagined
yourself in the worst scenario, if a solution does not come soon. It is time to
pull yourself together. Snap out of the negative energy. Come back to your
senses. You will not achieve anything substantial. By continuously worrying
about the circumstance. You will not make progress. By allowing the
circumstance to overwhelm you.
By
pulling yourself together. You put yourself in charge. Instead, of the negative
circumstance. During this difficult time. You need to harness any power you can
find, to remain stable. You need to be in your right mind. You need to look the
circumstance in the eye. You need to see the potential destruction. That the
negative circumstance is likely to cause. So you need to pull yourself
together. You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You need to start
thinking of how you will turn it around. You need to be yourself. You need to
feel the pain. You need to acknowledge how the circumstance is making you feel.
However, that is not all. You need to find strength to go past the pain and
weight. You can only do so. By pulling yourself together. Don’t lose your mind.
Don’t panic. Stand steady.
Corporate building. Photo/Pixabay The
negative circumstance came to destabilize you. It came to throw you out of
balance. It came to beat you. It came to distract everything you know. There is
nothing good about this circumstance. That is the mindset you need. You need to
see the negative circumstance as a threat. A threat that is about to take away
everything you know. That is its objective. However, you know that you have
worked for, everything you know. And you cannot allow anyone or something to
steal from you. Someone or something should not steal from you while watching.
You definitely want to do something. You want to fight back. You want to
protect your territory. You want to show the circumstance that you are in
charge. That your life belongs to you. Combat the negative circumstance by
pulling yourself together.
When
you pull yourself together. You think better. You strategize better. You think
about how you want to approach the circumstance. You come up with a foolproof
pushback. You get motivated. You find some energy. And you rise up to the
occasion. No one, can steal from you. No one, can come in your territory and
threaten you. This is your home. This is your property. This is what you have
built your life around. This is what you wake up for every day. And you will
not allow foreign elements to attack you. You will not allow a negative
circumstance to pull you down. You will not entertain failure. You will not
fraternize with an enemy. Get the enemy out. Get the negative circumstance out.
Get the discomforts out of your life. Face the negative circumstance. Pull
yourself together. When you pull yourself together. You become stronger. You
build power. You find strength. You make progress.
Understand Source of Negative
Circumstance
An excited man celebrating conquering a negative circumstance. Photo/Andre Furtado
Now
that you have awakened the lion inside you. You need to get to the underlying
cause of the negative circumstance. You want your efforts to root out the enemy
to be focused. Understand the source of the negative circumstance. There is a
basis. In the cause and effect world. Something must be triggered. Find the
source of your circumstances. Find the cause of the circumstance. Understand
the problem. Your objective is to ensure that you understand how the problem
began. Understand the role that you might have played to cause the problem. Put
together a formidable defense. Your focus is to win. And to arrive at a win.
You need to know the problem. When the problem is put into perspective. You
will know how to attack. You will know the position to take. You will know the
right resources needed for this type of circumstance.
Equip
yourself for a win. Train yourself for victory. Understand the root cause of
your problem. Establish the source of the negative circumstance. Get to the
bottom. Have an understanding. Have some knowledge. When you follow all these
steps to learn about the problem. You empower yourself. You build your bargain
power. You will start feeling better. You will be strengthened. And even, find
more motivation to find a solution. You can only beat what you know. You can
only claim victory over what you can conquer. You need to understand the source
of the negative circumstance. When you do that. You will stop the negative
circumstance from battering you. You will stop the negative circumstance from
eating into your energy. You must be level-headed. You must be thinking. You
must be willing to push yourself. You must be determined.
You
must decide to confront the negative circumstance using the right approaches. You
must convince your mind that, you no longer want pain. You must tell yourself
that, you deserve better. You must find your inner strength and summon it to
serve you. A negative circumstance has no place in your life. A pain has no
place in your body. Discomfort has no place in your life. When you reclaim
power like this. You win. Your mind wins. And when your mind wins. You also
win. You will counter the problem by responding with the right approaches. The
approaches will not be random thoughts. The approaches will be a thought-about
plan. Something that you have worked on yourself. Strategizes that you believe
will deliver. You have confidence in them. Your trust them. You understand the
problem.
When
you understand the problem. The threats that initially overwhelmed you begin to
diminish. You learn that, the negative circumstance is within your power. It is
something that you can solve. And even if, you cannot solve it. You know
someone who can help you. You know what to do. If, you don’t have solutions
yourself. You know the next steps to take. You are no longer disoriented. You
have taken charge. And you are making good decisions. Decisions that will
culminate in fixing the negative circumstance. You are working towards a
solution. You are working towards eliminating the threat. You are excited about
getting your life back. And that excitement is motivating you to act. You are
now ten times better than you started. You are ready. You are not worried. You
can see your way out. That is why understanding the root cause of a problem is
important. You get knowledge. And you can convert that knowledge into practical
solutions.
Fight Harder
By
understanding the source of the problem. You also learn. You identify things that
need to be solved. When you establish the exact cause. Be determined about
fixing it. Fight harder to fix it. Find the right resources. Find the right
partnerships. Build strength around the solution. Bring out the excellence in
you. Fight harder. Fix all the things that need to be fixed. Your life is on
line. If, you keep the negative circumstance lingering around for a long time. So
get to work as soon as possible. You want to go for solutions. Push yourself to
fix the negative circumstance. Your approach to the circumstance should be, an
unwanted foreign element. And an unwanted thing must get out as soon as,
possible. Don’t waste time. When you learn about the source of the problem.
Attack the root cause promptly. Fight harder.
Aim
your responses towards eliminating the problem completely. Fix the negative
circumstance using the right tools. Go for a permanent solution. Don’t look for
quick fixes. Go for permanent solution. You don’t want to feel threatened
again. You don’t want anything to impose into your peace. Progress. And
happiness. So go for a permanent solution. Fight harder. Fight harder for your
stability. Fight harder for your comfort. Fight harder for what rightfully
belongs to you. Get the enemy out. Get the discomfort out. Get the worries out.
Increase your efforts. Look for best solutions. Stay in the fight until the
problem is solved. Don’t hide when it gets hard. Don’t run when it gets
complicated. Stay there. Fight harder. Your solution will not be a straight
road. Getting to the root cause will also not be a straight road.
So be
determined about winning. Be determined about growing. Be determined about
getting everything back, that you have lost. Don’t give up when it gets tough.
Endure the pain. Take the falls. But keep fighting. Focus on turning the
negative circumstance into energy. Focus on getting better. Focus on living
without pain. Focus on enjoying your life without worrying. Go for what
rightfully belongs to you. You deserve your peace. You deserve your freedom.
You deserve your financial freedom. Fight harder for all these things. The
negative circumstance will not be a weakling. It will also fight back. Be
prepared. Get in the battle prepared. Be equipped. Go there to win. Win by
taking back everything that belongs to you. Don’t let circumstances run you.
You run this life. You are in charge. You make decisions.
You
determine who stays and who leaves. And whatever you concluded that is not
needed in your life, leaves. So, the negative circumstance leaves. Do whatever
it takes to ensure it leaves. Fight harder. Be determined about the fight.
Don’t go into the fight divided. Go in the fight with confidence. Go in the
fight with this mindset. That someone/something is encroaching in your
territory. And you will not allow that to happen. Your territory is your life.
And no one, plays with your life. There is a lion in you. That lion comes to
life when someone/something threatens your life. Now, a negative circumstance
is threatening your life. Bring out the lion in you. And turn that negative
circumstance into power. Be in charge. Take responsibility. And solve the
problem.
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