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YOUR BAD ATTITUDE WILL COST YOU
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
It was
simple. You were wrong. You were intoxicated. And you were driving deep in the
night. Relevant authorities stopped you. They were carrying out their routine
checks. And they learned that you were drunk. And on top of that, you also had
drugs in your car. The police politely requested you to step out of the car. All
the police wanted was to perform a procedural routine to determine the level of
alcohol in your body. This test was meant for your own safety. The police
wanted you to be safe. And your simple work was to cooperate. But you were
having none of that. You became upset. And followed it up with a bad attitude. The
police disrupted your somewhat beautiful journey. You were just okay driving
home deep in the night while drunk. So, you really agitated that you were
pulled over.
And you have developed a bad attitude that you are not listening. You are making very bad decisions right now. You are speaking nasty to the police. You are gradually growing aggressive. And your bad attitude has just escalated. You are telling the police to respect authority. That you are authority. That you lead an organization somewhere. And you cannot cooperate. You have forgotten that you broke the law. You were pulled over because you were compromising the safety of other road users. The police wanted to know the alcohol content in your body. To use that knowledge to determine whether you will arrive home safely. But you are not listening. The test would have taken few minutes. But you are not respecting. You are fighting authority. You are wasting time. And there is work to be done.
Your bad attitude towards the law is aggravating your situation. You are forcing the police to make difficult decisions. Your bad attitude has cheated you to believe that, you are too big to be questioned. That you are too big to follow simple instructions. You have really started becoming pathetic. You are saying things. Things that are so embarrassing for someone who just disclosed that he is also an authority. You are making the work of the police difficult. You are leaving the police with no choice but to apprehend you. You will be locked up for the night. You will spend the night in jail. When all you needed to do, was to cooperate. You just needed to listen. And follow what you were being told. You were flouting traffic rules. Traffic rules require sober drivers behind cars. You were not sober. You were not rational. You were driving under the influence of alcohol. You were risking not only your life but also the lives of other people.
An unexcited girl watching/Credit/Monstera ProductionSomeone needed to remind you that. That you are putting your life at risk. But you are not happy that someone reminded you. You are fight back. You have become aggressive towards the person who is helping you. You have created a scene. At this point, it is difficult to determine whether it is alcohol, which is making you foul-mouthed or you are always foul. The police arrested you to determine if, you will calm yourself down. However, the police were wrong. Even in handcuffs, you are still livid. You have even become worse. You have started hitting things. You are shouting. You have become arrogant. You have lost your cool. You are really bad inside the jail. Your level of respect has dropped to the lowest. The mixture of uncooperativeness, lack of respect for the law or other people, and arrogance have turned you into a horrible person.
The police would have to implement another measure to tame your bad attitude. Your mistakes have increased. You will not just be charged for driving under the influence of alcohol. Your bad attitude and arrogance has made you escalate your situation. Your freedom is at stake. What could have ended with a warning or fine has now transitioned into a 30-month jail term. You did not need to get here. You did not have to spend one year and several months in jail. You were wrong. And someone reminded you about it. You needed to remain calm. You needed to listen. You were supposed to cooperate with the police. You needed to do what they told you to do in that circumstance to keep yourself safe. You could have gotten home that night. If, the content in your body was low. But your bad attitude stood in the way.
Your bad attitude has now cost you your freedom. You will not have your freedom as you know it for the next 30 months. You will be regulated. You will learn the hard way that no one is too big for the law. That no one is too big to be questioned. That arrogance and uncooperativeness were bad choices. That you were playing with wrong people. You cannot tell people who enforce the law, which is supposed to protect you, to respect authority. It does not matter what kind of authority you are somewhere. When you breach the law, everything else becomes irrelevant. You don’t tell the police you are also authority when you are wrong. You don’t develop an attitude when you get called out. You don’t disrespect. You don’t become arrogant. You apologize and allow the law to take its course. You remain calm.
You want to start listening at this point. You want to try as much as, possible to be rational. You want to forget that you are drunk. You want to reason with the police. You want to demonstrate to the police that you can be very peaceful. No one is too big to fail. You need to shelf your arrogance and all other attributes that make you bad. No one should know that you get low sometimes. No one should know that you suffer from bad temper. No one should know that sometimes you serve expletives. Keep these demeanors to yourself. Focus on the matter at hand. Follow instructions to secure your freedom. Don’t drink and drive. Don’t disrespect the police when they are doing their job. They got to you because you got in their way. And you don’t need a bad attitude when you have committed a crime.
Your bad attitude will cost you. And you don’t want that. You had plans. You were trying to get somewhere. You wanted to get home. There are people who love you at home. But you don’t get home when you have a bad attitude. When you are making simple instruction difficult. No one will prevent you from enjoying the things that you love. However, when you are having those things at the wrong time. And at the same time putting everyone at risk including yourself. The law will run its course. The law will put you in check. And you don’t fight with law enforcers when you are wrong. You don’t become too big to be instructed. You calm yourself down. You don’t begin to create new problems. You don’t become aggressive. You don’t abuse authority. Instead, you want to be at your best behavior. So check your attitude. You don’t need 30 months in prison to learn. Watch yourself. Watch your character. Watch your behavior. Fix yourself. Work on your bad attitude.
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